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#457790 - 01/02/14 07:41 AM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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#457793 - 01/02/14 07:59 AM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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#457810 - 01/02/14 05:14 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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are you OK, Sven?
you don't have to explain everything.
but i am concerned that you are safe.
Lee
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How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
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#457811 - 01/02/14 05:22 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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#457813 - 01/02/14 05:30 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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thanks for replying. i didn't mean to pressure you - but i have lost a couple of friends and i don't take silence lightly.

i can't tell you what you should do - but from a previous post of yours - i want to say that you do not need to feel responsible for the comfort or protection of the abusers. you owe them nothing. they used you and abused you and got what they wanted. your best choice is to do what is best for you. i hope you can find a way to find safety and protection - healing is impossible until you find that security.

take care of yourself!
Lee
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How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

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#458396 - 01/10/14 11:11 AM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Edited by Sven (04/08/16 08:46 PM)
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#458415 - 01/10/14 05:54 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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(((Sven))) -

Yeh, it is maddening to have lies told about you - especially when he makes himself look like the victim and you the abuser. I believe that time will reveal the truth.

Two good things - 1. Now he is on the "radar " of the police - they will be aware of him and his future actions will be subject to scrutiny.
2. Since he has been told not to contact you, if he does, you can report him and hopefully get enforcement. It will be important for you to follow up on this. Especially if he hurts you again or threatens to.

Remember - there are more of us on MS who believe you than whoever took his report and minght have doubts.


Edited by traveler (01/10/14 05:55 PM)
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How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

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#458471 - 01/11/14 09:19 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Originally Posted By: Sven
But who will the police believe? Or more inportantly, what can be proved?


while this is relevant from a legal viewpoint (and it is good that you recognize and understand this) what it most important right now is your safety and health.
please protect your self physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually.
that would be my number one priority.
it is true that we all need to rely on ourselves, but it is also true that it is much more difficult to do it alone...

so please don't stop reaching out until you find the support you need.
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