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#398859 - 05/30/12 05:16 PM Re: My story [Re: jj78]
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Registered: 05/16/12
Posts: 1159
Loc: ""

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#398876 - 05/30/12 07:22 PM Re: My story [Re: jj78]
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Registered: 08/27/08
Posts: 938
Loc: Kc,Mo
wrong section

Edited by nltsaved (05/30/12 07:23 PM)
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Video of me telling my story
you are not alone never were
Why i hate Religion but love Jesus

#446950 - 09/12/13 04:05 AM Re: My story [Re: Castle]
bluesky Offline

Registered: 08/05/13
Posts: 670
Loc: NJ
This is the best thing I have read you are right it is not sex or love It was abuse eval shit.

Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
Frank Herbert

#457281 - 12/23/13 09:46 PM Re: My story [Re: Still]
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6845
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
[quote]I'm what happens when a wife does not think she "signed up for this shit."[/quote
A great quote!
Especially when a family like mine, are in denial

When you are abused, nobody wants to know!
Why? Because they don't know how to.

If only they knew!
Whoever stole the Sun, put it back and we'll drop all the charges!

#457288 - 12/23/13 10:46 PM Re: My story [Re: reality2k4]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6387
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
dear Re: jj78,
i am deeply sorry to hear about what happened to you.
your story really hit me deep.
the mention of church made me cry.
i can't really say what i feel, it's too much.

but congratulations on your milestones and anniversaries.
i love reading about the amazing progress you have been posting.
you sure have accomplished a lot in a short time.
great inspiration.

i thought i would give you this quote from reality2k4 who said it better than i could.
Originally Posted By: reality2k4
When you are abused, nobody wants to know!
Why? Because they don't know how to.

your statement is so simple and true, reality2k4.
it says what i could not.
the often overlooked tragedy of csa collateral damage.
it really made me think hard. ouch! that hurts.
(thinking hard and feeling, that is)
i can't begin to imagine the damage i have inflicted on my emotional ecosystem.
then i realize...
i always feel so involved and responsible and even guilty when someone i care about get sexually abused.
and, in some abstract way, that feeling extends to every abused child i become aware of.
it feels personal.
the protector in me grabs the steering wheel.
i have to hold myself back.
it is difficult to get involved.
think strategy, act efficiently.


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