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#45451 - 06/08/01 09:50 PM im afraid of confronting my attacker.

he is my cousin. and i need him to know how much he has ruined a little boys life some 30 years ago. how im so afraid of having any friends get too close to me. or how i keep wondering why he did what he did? maybe he is still doing it and i can stop him. we need to let all the little boys in the world know its okay to tell when something bad happens before so many years pass without help.

#45452 - 06/08/01 11:28 PM Re: im afraid of confronting my attacker.
michael Joseph Offline

Registered: 03/11/01
Posts: 2719
Loc: Virginia
see my memo I sent.

think this out carefully, can it be in writing, ect. If you confront in person bring someone for support, that is mt suggestion. I did when I did it.

Standing together is so much better than hiding in the dark.
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#45453 - 06/09/01 02:16 AM Re: im afraid of confronting my attacker.

If you don't feel like you are emotionally ready to confront him then you don't have to do it. Take care of yourself.

It is such a difficult decision to make but I am sure that you will get support from the people here, no matter which you choose.




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