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#453796 - 11/15/13 07:36 PM Violent outbursts and denial?
carperson Offline

Registered: 10/30/13
Posts: 21
Loc: Hawaii
Not long ago I told my brother that I was part of a web site that taught and supported CSA survivors and their families and was going to recommend it to my younger brother. However at the mention if the site he came up to me and pushed me to the floor then started screaming at me to stay out of it. He made no further physical action and instead threw some pillows and popped corn at the wall. When he reached for the lamp I restrained him yet again. He proceeded to scream and struggle. Saying "Nothing happened. Stay out of it" in screaming tones. In the last few weeks or so he has been getting increasingly loud and distructive. I really do not wish to physically restrain him but I don't know what else to do. He even yelled at our mother when she suggested we go to church. He is currently not speaking to me. He is 17. Should I avoid this site and 'stay out of it'? I am at a loss.

Edited by carperson (11/16/13 07:19 AM)
Here to help my brother and maybe my self.

#453956 - 11/16/13 02:07 PM Re: Violent outbursts and denial? [Re: carperson]
Esposa Offline

Registered: 10/19/11
Posts: 811
Loc: NJ
This site is as much for you as it could be for him. Obviously he is not ready to listen or to come here. But you can, and you can talk to people here since you cannot communicate with him.

At 17, he is still a minor and your mother has different options should he become a danger to himself. I can imagine it is extremely difficult to watch.

Come here though, this is a place where people understand.


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