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#452902 - 11/08/13 04:39 PM What was the age difference?
jas4159 Offline

Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 483
Loc: New Hampshire
What was the age difference between you and your abuser.

when i was 8-12 my abuser was 8 years older than me.
from the ages of 12 to eighteen my primary abusers were 24 years older. others were in there twenties when i was in my teens.


#452916 - 11/08/13 05:30 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Rich918 Offline

Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 45
I was 4, he was 24 up throughout my entire childhood.

#452918 - 11/08/13 05:35 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
cant_remember Offline

Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1070
I was 5 to 7; he was in his mid-50s.

I'll be just fine and dandy
Lord, it's like a hard candy Christmas
I'm barely getting through tomorrow
But I won't let sorrow get me way down.

#452919 - 11/08/13 05:43 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
4-year dif for three of the older boys. The least active and least participating one was only about 1-year.

#452942 - 11/08/13 07:53 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4199
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
1. step-dad - 32 years

2. peers & older boys - 0-8 years

3. stranger - 15? years
How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

#452987 - 11/09/13 04:22 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/23/13
Posts: 778
Loc: upper south
youth- approx 7
teen- 15 years older
adult- 15 years older
For now we see through a glass, darkly.

#452994 - 11/09/13 04:41 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
don64 Offline

Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 1106
mother-20 years older
father-19 years older
Divine Law is not judgment or denial of self truths. Divine Law is honoring harmony that comes from a peaceful mind, an open heart, a true tongue, a light step, a forgiving nature, and a love of all living creatures. Jamie Sams & David Carson, Medicine Cards

#452997 - 11/09/13 04:46 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
SoccerStar Offline

Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 929
I was 8, he was 66.
My story

"Don't think it hasn't been a little slice of Heaven just because it hasn't!" --Bugs Bunny

#453025 - 11/09/13 01:05 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Suwanee Offline
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Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 1261

Edited by Suwanee (02/21/16 05:03 PM)
I've got this life
And the will to show
I will always be
Better than before


#453042 - 11/09/13 03:38 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Moreorless Offline

Registered: 10/07/13
Posts: 23
Loc: Pittsburgh
Mom and Dad - approximately 30 years older than me.
"There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen

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