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#452902 - 11/08/13 11:39 AM What was the age difference?
jas4159 Offline

Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 371
What was the age difference between you and your abuser.

when i was 8-12 my abuser was 8 years older than me.
from the ages of 12 to eighteen my primary abusers were 24 years older. others were in there twenties when i was in my teens.


#452916 - 11/08/13 12:30 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Rich918 Offline

Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 45
I was 4, he was 24 up throughout my entire childhood.

#452918 - 11/08/13 12:35 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
cant_remember Offline

Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1060
I was 5 to 7; he was in his mid-50s.

But he grew old, this knight so bold / And upon his heart a shadow / Fell as he found / No spot on the ground / That looked like El Dorado.

#452919 - 11/08/13 12:43 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
4-year dif for three of the older boys. The least active and least participating one was only about 1-year.

#452942 - 11/08/13 02:53 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3967
Loc: settling in the USA again
1. step-dad - 32 years

2. peers & older boys - 0-8 years

3. stranger - 15? years
"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"

#452987 - 11/08/13 11:22 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/22/13
Posts: 778
Loc: upper south
youth- approx 7
teen- 15 years older
adult- 15 years older
For now we see through a glass, darkly.

#452994 - 11/08/13 11:41 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
don64 Offline

Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 1104
Loc: St. Croix, USVI
mother-20 years older
father-19 years older
Divine Law is not judgment or denial of self truths. Divine Law is honoring harmony that comes from a peaceful mind, an open heart, a true tongue, a light step, a forgiving nature, and a love of all living creatures. Jamie Sams & David Carson, Medicine Cards

#452997 - 11/08/13 11:46 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
SoccerStar Offline

Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 928
I was 8, he was 66.
My story

"Don't think it hasn't been a little slice of Heaven just because it hasn't!" --Bugs Bunny

#453025 - 11/09/13 08:05 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
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Edited by Suwanee (02/21/16 12:03 PM)
I've got this life
And the will to show
I will always be
Better than before


#453042 - 11/09/13 10:38 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Moreorless Offline

Registered: 10/07/13
Posts: 23
Loc: Pittsburgh
Mom and Dad - approximately 30 years older than me.
"There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen

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