last night i got some very bad news about a close friend and fellow CSA survivor. i am having a hard time dealing with it - but not nearly as terrible a time as he is having. i can't say more - but if you believe in such things - please pray for him - or send him some positive energy - or whatever you do to try to influence the universe to give a guy a break.
"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"