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#448414 - 09/27/13 01:49 PM Need to talk privately
Optimus82 Offline

Registered: 09/27/13
Posts: 2
Hi. I had two experiences with my mother when I was 5, and some other things happened later in life. I would like to talk with someone privately about this. If possible, could someone send me a private message? I will post a reply to this thread once I have started a conversation.

Thank you,


#448428 - 09/27/13 04:55 PM Re: Need to talk privately [Re: Optimus82]
Rambler Offline

Registered: 12/11/06
Posts: 134
Loc: Planet Earth
Try the chat room. There are a few mother/son survivors there regularly. Or feel free to PM me.

Edited by Rambler (09/27/13 04:58 PM)

#448430 - 09/27/13 05:25 PM Re: Need to talk privately [Re: Optimus82]
FormerTexan Offline

Registered: 09/12/04
Posts: 12137
Loc: Denver, CO
My mother -> son abuse might be a different situation, but you can PM me as well if you like.
Money talks, but all it tells me is goodbye.

If I could meet myself as a boy...

#448573 - 09/28/13 12:44 PM Re: Need to talk privately [Re: Optimus82]
newground Offline
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Registered: 10/11/11
Posts: 1146
Loc: michigan
hey optimus
you are welcome to pm me any time as well though our situations are surely different. what I have found here in talking to many people is there are so many things that differ in our stories , so many subtle insanities and indignities that we suffer alone, and yet our feelings and insecurities are so similar. we are part of an unfortunate brotherhood and it seems no matter who was at the helm during the abuse, the results are amazingly similar. I hope this helps you to reach out man. It was the most difficult and the best decision for me.
Either I will find a way, or I will make one.
Philip Sidney

#448586 - 09/28/13 05:22 PM Re: Need to talk privately [Re: Optimus82]
Optimus82 Offline

Registered: 09/27/13
Posts: 2
Thanks to all of you for offering your support.


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