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#44823 - 07/14/06 08:31 AM Re: My Perp?
Derdlecar Offline

Registered: 11/08/05
Posts: 1316
Loc: Ogden Utah, USA

This is something that in my opinion can't be over stressed. He ain't mine, never was. And for what ever it is worth, I'm not his victim! Was I a victim? Yes. But I am not and never was his! Him doing bad things to me did not make me his any more than me keying my neighbors car mekes it mine.

Love ya Bro


PS, you can find the thread I started by clicking here.

If a man would get his life on track, he must first go back to the place where it was derailed.

#44824 - 07/19/06 10:16 PM Re: My Perp?
ARW Offline

Registered: 08/29/02
Posts: 161
Loc: LA
wow. that's why I come here. Something like this from out of the blue will make a huge impression. I went back to a few of my threads and found that sure enough, "my perp", written over and over again. imagine the tape loop in my head? this has absolutely never occured to me before and i think it's extremely profound insight. Thanks Darrel and John for the posts. This is big for me. "My perp" is no more.


In every cry of every man,
In every Infant's cry of fear,
In every voice, in every ban,
The mind-forged manacles I hear.
-William Blake

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