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#446005 - 08/31/13 01:18 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
Suwanee Offline
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Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 1344

Edited by Suwanee (02/21/16 05:22 PM)
I've got this life
And the will to show
I will always be
Better than before

#446023 - 08/31/13 03:17 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
Rich1967 Offline

Registered: 07/18/13
Posts: 683
Loc: PA
I would love to give the street address but then that would mean all of my previous posts about not hating him would be bullshit…

391 Gran… FL east coast… and probably in a bed next to my mom as I write this. I've wanted to ask her how she feels about the fact that we've both had sex with the same man.

It doesn't count if I'm expressing it here. Besides, it's more anger than hatred and I'm allowed to be angry.

I liked the underwear thread better :-)
"Me too"-I don't think I will ever get tired of saying or hearing these two words.
My Story

#446052 - 08/31/13 06:13 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
George Offline

Registered: 01/29/01
Posts: 373
Loc: NY metro **PM's are welcomed
I heard almost a year ago that my uncle (perp) had recently died, I knew it was inevitable as he was 78... I had hoped to get some kind of apology before the end, didn't happen. Not that I need it, it would've been nice. I had forgiven him years ago, not for his sake, but for mine. I last saw him at a wedding 18 years ago & avoided him like the plague, before that I was 13. What a lonely end it must have been for him, I told enough people in the family about him in 1999(even the cops), that everyone knew what he was, even his own kids.
My Updated (2017) Story, it focuses on the abuse, the aftermath & poor coping mechanisms & breakthrough...Healing ;

#446183 - 09/02/13 05:00 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1
wrong thread

Edited by Still (09/02/13 05:00 AM)

#446187 - 09/02/13 06:03 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
trytry Offline

Registered: 02/14/13
Posts: 52
Loc: Wisconsin
Last I heard he got married and may have moved to a nearby city a few years ago. He used to live a few houses from where I'm living now, still triggering every time I have to drive by it.

#446267 - 09/03/13 02:28 AM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
GT13568 Offline

Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 188
Loc: California, 93451
My perps are both dead.

My dad killed himself when I was seventeen, and my mom died from alcoholism and emphysema when I was thirty-one.
I won the moment he hurt me, because he poisoned his soul, and I did not poison mine. I did not hurt anyone. He did. He was the perp. He tried to make me into a victim, but I became a survivor. Yes.

#446318 - 09/03/13 04:29 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
Publius Offline

Registered: 03/13/12
Posts: 444
Loc: OH
He lives in Fort Wayne Indiana and last I heard he sells medical supplies although I am not positive he still does it. A long while back I checked up to see if he had been brought up on any charges or suspicion of guilt related to child sex abuse but found nothing. His father was his perp and I was one of the kids he acted out upon. My fear is he never stopped.
"Life is like this dark tunnel. You may not always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you keep moving, you will come to a better place." ~ General Iroh

#452077 - 10/31/13 11:18 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
BuffaloCO Offline

Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 490
One is dead, the others I don't know about.
�We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.� - Plato

#452175 - 11/01/13 11:56 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/23/13
Posts: 778
Loc: upper south
Of my three, none have died. The only casualty was Little Me. I haven't seen #1 since my wife died...accidentally met him at the family plots... almost 10 yrs. ...#2 for approximately 20 yrs... and #3.. for over a year. But my mother did ask me to visit the #1 just two weeks ago because he has been gravely ill.... LOL... I didn't because I DON'T WANT TO...
For now we see through a glass, darkly.

#463152 - 03/25/14 07:15 PM Re: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? [Re: Still]
jas4159 Offline

Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 483
Loc: New Hampshire
dead and living happily in jail and a family member who ihave reconnected with and forgiven. we now have a healthy relationship as brother.


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