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#443299 - 08/05/13 02:29 AM New Here but Not New To This
Ck Offline

Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 3
Loc: NY

I had stumbled across this site almost 5 years ago. I have been in therapy for a number of reasons not the least of which is this.

I was triggered, I guess, by watching a pre-recorded but recent episode of "Major Crimes". It was about a swim coach that molested his students and suddenly I just broke down. Fortunately my Wife knows and understands but I finally needed more support than she or my therapists can extend.

All the stories are so sad and recently I also reached out to "Prevent Child Abuse" who has a wonderful slogan that says "It shouldn't hurt to be a child" and all I can add to that is it shouldn't still hurt from what happened as a child!

I wish everyone here well!

#443321 - 08/05/13 07:06 AM Re: New Here but Not New To This [Re: Ck]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6387
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
it shouldn't hurt.
but i am afraid it does.

welcome, Ck.

hope you find resources and support here.
it is good that you also understand that you need more support than your wife and therapists can extend.
i get it from all over, wherever i can.

i wish you well.


#443393 - 08/05/13 08:12 PM Re: New Here but Not New To This [Re: Ck]
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