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#443110 - 08/03/13 12:24 AM Pig Pile
GoldStone Offline

Registered: 05/28/13
Posts: 220
Loc: Far East
Shout out.

What are you letting go of today?

What could you do without?

Throw it on the pile.

Edited by GoldStone (08/03/13 12:54 AM)

#443111 - 08/03/13 12:28 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
GoldStone Offline

Registered: 05/28/13
Posts: 220
Loc: Far East
Letting go of my need for immediate change. lol

Edited by GoldStone (08/03/13 04:20 AM)

#443119 - 08/03/13 05:37 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
Cthulhu Offline

Registered: 06/13/13
Posts: 160
I am trying to, and successfully, letting go about being sad about being sad, being angry with being angry and being frustrated with my apparent lack of success compared to some imagined me. I am not really giving up something, but really I am just accepting my natural, not perfect, state as what it is. It is the current existence of me.
what matters most is how well you walk through the fire
-Charles Bukowski

#443121 - 08/03/13 08:09 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
CafeMan Offline

Registered: 03/18/13
Posts: 165
Loc: Chicago
For me, I am cutting loose people who don't appreciate my friendship.

#443124 - 08/03/13 09:34 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
BuffaloCO Offline

Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 490
Letting go of one more event faced this week in T. My T says every story has a beginning, a middle and an end. This is in the past, ended. Now that I see it for what it was, it goes into the pile of one more thing I went through, but no longer impacts where I go from here. Face it to stomp it on the pig pile!
�We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.� - Plato

#443125 - 08/03/13 09:49 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
concerned_husky Offline

Registered: 08/29/12
Posts: 766
This annoying habit of not being able to say "no".

"Only the solitary seek the truth, and they break with all those who don't love it sufficiently." - Pasternak

#443126 - 08/03/13 10:02 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
Rich1967 Offline

Registered: 07/17/13
Posts: 588
Loc: PA
Having rejection by a friend mean that I'm worthless is something I've gotten over. All through high school and college rejection by my male counter parts was proof that I really was worthless. Just lost a close friendship (sort of) and I was able to love my self enough to really get past it.

So rejection from others is NOT a reflection of who I am - throwing it on the pile. I like me and I've found others here that do too.
"Me too"-I don't think I will ever get tired of saying or hearing these two words.
My Story

#443129 - 08/03/13 10:24 AM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/22/13
Posts: 778
Loc: upper south
You know those random numbers we have entered on our cells.... DELETE DELETE DELETE DELETE........ on the pile... no, I don't have 400+ best friends... impossible... DELETE DELETE DELETE... on the pile
For now we see through a glass, darkly.

#443152 - 08/03/13 02:26 PM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
freeze-on Offline

Registered: 08/08/09
Posts: 79
Loc: southeast
saying no to carrying their pain with me as if were my own.

Edited by grinning (08/05/13 10:33 PM)
Edit Reason: personal

#443154 - 08/03/13 03:46 PM Re: Pig Pile [Re: GoldStone]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4134
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
back in the old home town - i am rejecting the fear of being recognized as a victim by those who were the perps and those who knew of my shame.

and - by the way - i reject the shame as well.

i have a new identity - as a shame-free survivor and thriver.

"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"

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