please be patient and gentle with her.
she may return the favour.
if she has no experience this is nearly impossible to understand.
my wife knows just about everything, but doesn't really want to.
i gave up trying to "make her understand" and instead i am grateful that she cannot.
i leave her out of my ups and downs for the most part, and she understands why it is happening.
when i am acting out or acting up or just acting crazy, she stands by me, but does not tolerate inappropriate behaviour, so i get a good smackdown. we have been together for almost 30 years now, 22 of those married.
we are doing ok.
i wish you all the best in your marriage.
treat her like gold.
show her all the love you can.
[ and you know i don't mean sex
hugs and flowers and housework and sweet notes, poems and letters. stay romantic and show your gratitude for her loyalty.