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#441757 - 07/22/13 03:02 PM controlled
bey Offline

Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 428
Loc: canada
my therapist says that
the way i bite my lip ring
drop my head
and then
half smile at him
is me trying to
control the session


then you tell me

how else
am i
to control
I guess this is growing up.

#441771 - 07/22/13 05:05 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bodyguard8367 Offline

Registered: 05/16/12
Posts: 1159
Loc: ""

Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 05:46 PM)

#441782 - 07/22/13 05:55 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6290
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
seduction becomes more difficult,
temptations come less frequently,
opportunity stops knocking,
when you start getting old and ugly like me.

day by day, the sexy me fades away.
finally, i begin to feel free.



#441799 - 07/22/13 08:12 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bey Offline

Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 428
Loc: canada
Vic and BG,

Oh my god, your responses had me laughing out loud at the absurdity of this situation. Because you are both so right. And ya, I am not young, i maybe have 5 years of adult left before I turn the corner towards middle aged. I didn't realize this flirting stuff was a problem until today at therapy, but the more I think about it the more I see truth in it.
So, I'll just change my whole way of being and all will be well. Easy peasy.
I guess this is growing up.

#441814 - 07/22/13 10:19 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
Shyshark Offline

Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 682
Loc: Canada
I am old and ugly ...


I have been freed by a non-existent hairline
and the tub of lard that once was a waistline.

The urge is gone
the need has ceased
freed of the beast
Experience is a brutal teacher.

#441850 - 07/23/13 07:08 AM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bey Offline

Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 428
Loc: canada
thanks for the feedback, shy shark
the inevitableness of not even being an issue both calms and terrifies me
like most things
I guess this is growing up.


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