The way I see it, the wide range of personalities & needs & expectations & fears of newcomers on this site requires us all to be tolerant and flexible in what we demand of our new members and guests... There's plenty of time to get to know them once they've made it through their initial crisis phase.
Well said, Friend.
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy Shit! What a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson