Hey out there.. If you have any experience with finding someone to walk through this process. please message me.. Im from a small city and unbeknown to me the man I fell in love with I have been referred to a couple of times, I hear he iks amazing at his work. But we don't cross those lines.. it makes it very intresting time to find help..so I guess I'm seeing if any one has any suggestions on what to do..I would prefer messages over posts on here.. thank you. Tide