This really is a brilliant concept
It makes a lot of sense on one level
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from the websiteWould Surrogate Partner Therapy be helpful for me?
Are you feeling uncomfortable with your sexual orientation or gender? Are you dealing with insecurity and/or lack of experience with all things sexual? Are you afraid of not being able to perform sexually the way you want to? Are you struggling with long-standing physical or emotional issues with sex? Do you need help building skills for dating or for satisfying intimate relationships? If the answer to any of these is “Yes,” then Surrogate Partner Therapy might be helpful for you.
I met a nurse, it was not one of those desparate encounters I had prior that left me feeling so empty and dirty. This was completely different, he made tea we chatted and he was genuinely interested in me as a person. Later he led me to the bedroom and for the first time in my life a man made love to me as another man. He was attentive and not coercive in any way yet forceful and urgent and intense. And when he kissed me it was like the top of my head blew off. The rush of feelings, the way it felt so right, his pheromones of clean sweat without confounding cologne or pit stick. Unrushed, yet passionate and more than anything was about just being in the moment where he held me in his muscular arms and put my head on his chest after an hour of the most intense experience of my life.
I cried my eyes out as I drove home, I had realized in that moment that that's what my sexuality was. It wasn't dirty or furtive or just the sex act, it was making love for the first time as myself. The effect initially was horrible, I didn't really know how to really process it. I wasn't ready for what happened. It took a lot of time and therapy to really come to understand that I had repressed my sexuality my whole life. I was gay in orientation but had lived a heterosexual lifestyle.
I do think its a good idea , I just think its important to understand what the potential outcome might be.
I am lucky enough to still have a great relationship with my exwife, my kids and both my and her family. Some would be giving up a lot , especially those surrounded by hyper religiocity. I have and my family has gained so much. My kids now have a dad who is really there body and spirit and my exwife now has an opportunity to be loved and made love to by a man who is also 100% there. I hope her head blows off too.
My son plays for the state (provincial ) championship this weekend in baseball. My wife and her bf, me and my bf and our families. We will all be there cheering him on.
I hope your journey ends where your dreams are realized, whatever they may be.