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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (03/01/14 12:39 AM)

#439069 - 06/24/13 12:17 PM Re: Justice for son came at steep price for family [Re: Smalltown80sBoy]
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The ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities are endemic with this... it is a devastating and calculated vendetta of shaming, ostracizing, and re-victimizing, which can extend to vandalism and physical assault (a CSA survivor advocate had bleach thrown in his eyes by the son of a perp). Here in NY it's rare to go a month without some new horror story of official silence and perp privilege. I fully expect the sex abuse rate in Haredi communities / yeshivas is as endemic and common as the issue in the Catholic church (proportionately of course, since there is a lower number of Haredi yeshivas than Catholic churches).

It doesn't help that boys in these communities are raised intensively sex-segregated, never interact with women and taught that women are unclean, while rather openly being allowed to mutually masturbate each other between classes or during any private moment; at some point something becomes SUCH an open secret that you can't even call it a secret at all. Everybody knows so they imprint on that behavior with that age group as what enjoyable and allowable sexual experiences are supposed to be. So the boys get patterned to seek sexual contact with adolescent males and to be baffled, fearful, and loathful towards women. If you want to program a boy to grow up to be a perp you probably couldn't find a better plan.
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