My H hasn't raged since late January!
This is a huge deal! We talked a little last night about how grateful and happy I am about it, and he said he just doesn't feel as angry all the time any more!
His therapy was intense and barely scratched the CSA/incest surface, but even that helped. And it increased trust with us! (I see a T too, and his is at a college, so he's about to start back after their monthly summer break.)
Life is financially really tough for us right now, and we're making it. As a supporter, it's sometimes so hard to remember that "it's not me" when he struggles, and sometimes the best I can do is to not make life more difficult for him.
Just wanted to say that.