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#438783 - 06/21/13 01:25 AM I Told My Wife Tonight
Dave PNW Offline
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Registered: 04/03/13
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Loc: Pacific Northwest
Tonight I told the most important person in my life for the last 28 years my secret. I told my wife what happened to me. Just the roughest outline. She knows. She understands. It's going to be okay. Thanks for helping me find the voice and the courage to do this. Dave

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#438785 - 06/21/13 02:17 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Hey Dave,
you were very brave, here is standing ovation for you:
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Just keep going like that wink

Pero
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#438791 - 06/21/13 05:47 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Registered: 02/25/13
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Loc: The ATL

Way to go Dave! I think this disclosure is a huge step. I'll bet it feels like a weight has been lifted and that there was some very real healing done when you told her this secret that you held for so long. Kudos to you man! Peace,

Ken

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#438793 - 06/21/13 06:29 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Registered: 08/31/11
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I am glad for you. You have a good woman who stands by you. I can only imagine what that feels like and for you it is a major step in healing.

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#438799 - 06/21/13 08:02 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Dave,

That is a huge leap forward! You have someone else in your corner now; do not underestimate how important that is. My wife has been a tremendous source of support. Sometimes she doesn't always understand why certain things bother me...but she's there just in case. May this be a part of your continued healing.

Will
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#438810 - 06/21/13 09:57 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Registered: 02/25/13
Posts: 500
Loc: Texas
I'm glad You found the courage to tell her, i still cant bring myself to tell mine maybe someday, but I am proud for You Man!
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Even though I hold the weight of the whole world on my shoulders..

Bit by bit Torn apart We never win But the battle wages on
For toy soldiers!

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#438812 - 06/21/13 10:03 AM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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Way to Go Dave!!

Good for you.

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#438824 - 06/21/13 12:35 PM Re: I Told My Wife Tonight [Re: Dave PNW]
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So very doggone excellent, dw!!
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#438832 - 06/21/13 03:28 PM ! [Re: Dave PNW]
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