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#437969 - 06/12/13 06:03 PM After all, never question your pastor.
iamnotbubba Offline


Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 135
Loc: Colorado
My new chapter. I have been living in the mud of regret. Tho i am happy to get this out.

After all, never question your pastor

iamnotbubba


Edited by iamnotbubba (06/12/13 11:47 PM)
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#437970 - 06/12/13 06:11 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Registered: 01/01/13
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your ability to parse out your memories down to specific moments and remember your thoughts and feelings is really powerful and encouraging for my own journey.
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#438000 - 06/12/13 11:48 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Thank you so much Jacob. You are awesome!

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#438190 - 06/14/13 04:08 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Very disturbing experience to read but so eloquently written. Yours is going to be an important voice for our worldwide survivor community. Thanks for posting your work for us.
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#438199 - 06/14/13 04:53 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 04:33 PM)

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#438364 - 06/16/13 11:04 AM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Thank you, Thank you so much for reading!


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#438401 - 06/16/13 11:02 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Registered: 01/22/13
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Loc: upper south
Your words are strong, honest, and very moving. Thanks for sharing the steps of your journey. It helps to understand my own situations a little bit clearer. I am sorry that the pastor had the necessity to bring God into the abuse. The abuse into church. But that's what they do. The predator moves about where the prey is located.

I also feel that the man I was to become was destroyed when my abuse started. But it seems you have done a very good job of reinventing that man as one who has a story to tell, others to help heal. You are doing good for the world.

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#438660 - 06/19/13 02:53 PM Re: After all, never question your pastor. [Re: iamnotbubba]
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Thank you ThisMan!

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