I'm not very eloquent with my words and I'm not very wise either so I'm not sure exactly what to say to comfort and encourage, but I am here for you and right there beside you on this journey. We all are. I believe in you and I accept the inevitability of your success in complete recovery.
I may not be much help, but I've been told I'm a phenominal listener. If you ever need an ear, I can lend you mine.
You don't seem very confuzzed Aiden, I think you're spot on. Just lending an ear can make all the difference in the world to someone. It is extremely helpful and comforting to know someone is interested enough in another's problems to lend that ear.
I think that your use of the word "phenomenal" is very accurate.Peace, Rainbows, Love & HealingJeff