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#43755 - 05/08/05 09:40 PM Back In town/Dealing with issues
andrew76 Offline

Registered: 10/01/02
Posts: 118
Loc: Florida
Got back into town on saturday after having to go back down to south florida first then home.I spent the night with another family member of mine after being told not to come home by my wife during the week.I don't need to be getting into another fight and having the possibility of having to go to jail if things go even farther south in regards to the relationship.Trying to work things out with wife but not very easy at all very hurt and frustrated and found out this week while out on the road I now have lung cancer after my doctors looked further into my condition after going to my lung doc before leaving received the call on friday afternoon and have not approached my wife with this devistating news too much already dealing with don't want to throw even more things into the mix with this news.

I am ok but still dealing with everything but am trying to work on relationship with wife and trying to talk since she would not talk to me this week when i called to talk to her it seems like she wants to talk on her terms but I call when i get the chance and no go so today I will try to communicate with her and see where things are.Thanks for caring everyone even though I know I have not been on all week it helps to know others do care and ric thanks for calling and caring,sorry been out of touch last couple of days have been dealing with the devistating news i received.

I leave to go back on the road tommorrow and will keep in touch to let everyone know how things are going and what is going on in my thoughts and feelings.



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#43756 - 05/09/05 01:34 AM Re: Back In town/Dealing with issues
reality2k4 Offline

Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6845
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
Andrew, glad you checked in, and you are safe.
I am sorry so many things are going on, and it is not easy.
You need to be a lot easy on yourself.
It is bad enough to have all these problems, and then find out you have cancer, but it is a must that you find karma in your life.
I will pray that you get thru, but look after you, it matter, most,


Whoever stole the Sun, put it back and we'll drop all the charges!

#43757 - 05/09/05 03:28 AM Re: Back In town/Dealing with issues
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
I hope that you have some good support to help you through these tough times, you know that we'll do whatever we can to offer support.

Take care

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

#43758 - 05/09/05 04:00 AM Re: Back In town/Dealing with issues
sophiesdad Offline

Registered: 04/30/05
Posts: 462
Loc: Florida
So sorry to hear that you have so much on your plate at this time. Try and take things one hour or even one minute at a time if you have to. We're here for you.


There are no unresolved issues - they just didn't resolve themselves the way we would have liked. "Grinder and Bandler - Neuro-Linguistic Programming"

#43759 - 05/09/05 07:02 AM Re: Back In town/Dealing with issues
RangerJ19 Offline

Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 42
Loc: North Woods
Thank you for letting us know that you're all right.

I'm sorry about the bad news. My father is a 2x cancer survivor, so please don't give up hope. Who knows? Perhaps getting through this crisis together can help heal things w/ your wife?

But no matter what the future holds, please know we'll be around for ya. Feel free to PM me if you ever want.

Life is worth living.
'Cause of legal issues and the fact i'm still trying to get better, I don't PM or chat w/ minors.


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