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#436369 - 05/31/13 12:23 AM Who is in the Mirror?
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Registered: 07/14/12
Posts: 490
I look in the mirror some days, and I don't know who I am now. Have come a long way since joining last July, and starting T in October. So I'm not who I was before, just don't know who I am now in someways, least not in this world. Progress has to count for something, but where does it lead? Healing, I know that much, but what after that? Some days I feel stuck without a job or a way to pay for school. Just venting I guess, have to much energy to be alone so much.
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�We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.� - Plato

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#436373 - 05/31/13 01:16 AM Re: Who is in the Mirror? [Re: BuffaloCO]
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Registered: 10/11/11
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that is the goal buff, healing alone is nearly meaningless. but as it serves you it is a miracle! you are still in a rough place man even with all the progress. but in time there will be relationships, maybe kids?, a great job that you love because you will then be ready for it. right now your Job is to gather strength, heal,learn and grow and you are doing all those things in great ways . don't let those old voices tell you it is nothing man you are doing everything!

btw maybe volunteer to help with the time on your hands you never know where that may go.
be well my friend
jeff
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#436446 - 06/01/13 01:22 AM Re: Who is in the Mirror? [Re: BuffaloCO]
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Thanks Newground, I am learning to see the "me" in the mirror as the one I am supposed to be, not the one they told me I was. I may be down but I am not done. Have to keep telling myself that. I was never defined by them and I'm learning that too. Also volunteering and maybe should do more since I have the energy. Thanks for the kind words and all of your support over these months. You are truly a good person you know, like so many others here. I am blessed by being able to be here.
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