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#435966 - 05/27/13 03:38 PM Re: New here [Re: Climb1975]
Climb1975 Offline

Registered: 05/21/13
Posts: 21
Loc: Brit
I've got to stay strong but I think I'm going backwards. My wife, who I've hurt with dishonesty, deviancy and cruelty is now so angry that I don't think she will ever trust me again. I could say it's only the kids keeping us together but in fact what I want is for us to be together and the kids are just a part of that (albeit a massively important part). I think she feels the need to punish me and I deserve that, but I can't believe that will help either of us.

#435983 - 05/27/13 05:12 PM Re: New here [Re: Climb1975]
marrkkked Offline

Registered: 05/27/13
Posts: 7
Loc: New York
Hi! Nice to meet you all.I am Alex and new here.I am glad to join this forum.I think it's best place to share and discuss here.Thanks and welcome to all.
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#436188 - 05/29/13 02:04 PM Re: New here [Re: Climb1975]
Rj2660 Offline

Registered: 03/14/13
Posts: 22
Loc: Texas
When we keep it inside, it becomes an F5 twister within, waiting to wreak all the havoc and tragedy possible!
If someone throws trash on my lawn and drives away, it is mine to deal with. I make the decision whether to collect it or take responsibility for cleaning it up. We are the sum of our choices. For some, these were thrust upon us at an age when we were not qualified to take such resposibility. R.J.

#436194 - 05/29/13 03:11 PM Re: New here [Re: Climb1975]
Climb1975 Offline

Registered: 05/21/13
Posts: 21
Loc: Brit
Too right RJ. And for years I allowed myself to believe that I was "better at dealing with this stuff" than other people because I'd not told anyone. Classic, pseudo-macho Anglo-Saxon response.

#436236 - 05/29/13 09:37 PM Re: New here [Re: Climb1975]
rc1965 Offline

Registered: 04/23/13
Posts: 12
HiClimb1975. You are so not alone....I could have written your intro using my experiences. For me...talking to other members does help. No judgments, just ears that listen and men who already understand.

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