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#435290 - 05/20/13 11:31 PM Hello... Help me
Kilo Offline

Registered: 05/19/13
Posts: 14
Loc: New York
I am new on here and i need some major support. Please help me
Stay Groovy Man

#435291 - 05/21/13 12:14 AM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6387
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
welcome to the male survivor forum.
you have many people here you can draw support from.

what is bugging you right this moment?


#435293 - 05/21/13 12:25 AM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
Farmer Boy Offline

Registered: 08/23/12
Posts: 442
Loc: Australia
Hi Kilo

I am glad you found us but sorry that you have reason to be here. If you need support this place is a good start. I have found no other place where I can share my deepest darkest thoughts and secrets and find guys who really do understand. Your stories are all different but the way CSA affected us is so very very similar.

Take it as fast or as slow as you need. When you need to talk we will be here.

My one word of caution is don't read too much all at once and be sure to look out for 'trigger warning's. If you are in a bad place the last thing you need is to read something that triggers more negative feelings.

Don't be a stranger.

More than meets the eye!

#435443 - 05/22/13 01:58 PM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1633
Loc: New England
Welcome Kilo,

We are here to support one another. No one among us is a therapist (well maybe one is) but we all kind of know what you've been through and how you feel about it. Post a little more detail and your buds here can respond.

I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Sarah McLachlan

#435482 - 05/22/13 06:40 PM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
rc1965 Offline

Registered: 04/23/13
Posts: 12
Hi Kilo,
Help is here.
Let us hear back from you.

#435497 - 05/22/13 10:08 PM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
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Registered: 05/16/12
Posts: 1159
Loc: ""

Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 08:35 PM)

#435499 - 05/22/13 10:16 PM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
newground Offline
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Registered: 10/11/11
Posts: 1154
Loc: michigan
hi kilo, you have made a great step in opening the door to male survivor. that may feel terrifying, I know it did for me. but I hope you can bring yourself one step further. I hope that you can bring yourself to take in the help that is available here. whether in the forums, or on chat there are those who will listen. and support you in your pain because we have been there. shame and fear have robbed us of so much man, here you are safe and surrounded by people who get it
welcome Kilo glad you have found us, but so sorry you needed to
Either I will find a way, or I will make one.
Philip Sidney

#438104 - 06/13/13 11:29 PM Re: Hello... Help me [Re: Kilo]
Davoice Offline

Registered: 05/11/13
Posts: 19
Loc: Western, New York
Hey there lil bro I will always be some where near ya smile don't forget to get my number copied down


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