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#435367 - 05/21/13 04:58 PM Emptiness
TW16 Offline

Registered: 06/11/09
Posts: 178
Loc: Utah
I want to share something that happened to me while I was a teenager. Something that very very few know about. And fewer know the details. I don't know why it is bothering me so much lately, but I feel I need to get it off my chest, but I am terrified to do so. I am so humiliated and ashamed to even mention it. And I don't have anyone who I can talk to about it. After this incident happened, I was told of known sexual abuse cases among boys, I was one of the worse in the state in the 1990's. I don't know the validity of that, but that is what I was told.

I want to share it, but I am so afaid to.


#435382 - 05/21/13 07:48 PM Re: Emptiness [Re: TW16]
bodyguard8367 Offline

Registered: 05/16/12
Posts: 1159
Loc: ""

Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 03:32 PM)

#435397 - 05/21/13 10:16 PM Re: Emptiness [Re: TW16]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 6300
Loc: 𝒪 𝒦anada
you can always PM someone you trust here, if you are uncomfortable posting it in public forum.
sometimes, though, putting it out there works wonders.

sounds like you need to talk about it.
hope you find the right time and space.
i am willing to listen.


#435846 - 05/26/13 08:43 AM Re: Emptiness [Re: TW16]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/22/13
Posts: 778
Loc: upper south
Hey, TW16.

We understand the fear of sharing the events. Like the guys said, you take your time. It is okay. It took me many many decades to share in detail what has happened to me, and half the stories I may never share. But the burden of secrets is a heavy burden to carry. .. I recommend you wait not decades to share as I did... but do take your time. When you are ready, you are ready. And you are, as I speak, becoming stronger every day.

For now we see through a glass, darkly.


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