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#430501 - 04/08/13 01:22 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: ThisMan]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 7011
Loc: FEMA Region 1

I'm sorry to even keep this going. I write only in hope that someone or people will glean bits of value for future kids.


Originally Posted By: ThisMan
And so as a youngster you thought you needed a knife to protect yourself. So what, man? At least you were smart enough and brave enough to carry one.

The knife incident probably sealed my fate. Using it caused a virtual shit-storm to pour down upon my head for years. Though I did not go to juvie, I now think I may as well have gone. Every kid, every adult, the police, my family, my extended family, the school faculty....everyone in my fucking stupid life felt weapons-free to attack me face-to-face; Greatly the way I feel license to walk up to a pedo and tear into his soul.

I've said this a million times: "it is truly amazing what adults will say to a child when no one is nearby."

You know rumor mills. I eventually became the John Dillinger of my small town.

Imagine what that does to a an 8-yo! I was isolated by it. Vilified by what i did. Victim to a frenzy of free hate. We grew-up in the "free-love" period. Well, I'm here to tell you, free-hate comes easier to people than love.

I actually expected to be killed for a while there. The adult anger and older-peer hatred and anger was kind of vivid. I think it was a reasonable suspicion.


So there was no REAL outrage in my spirit whilst kneeling on that basement floor, or face hard to the wall. There was no thought of escape or ending it.

These are deadly realizations. These elements of "self" completely stopped my earthly life.

These elements bound my soul and spirit...ability to live...for 7 long years. And what they did create, you see today. Feeling sub-human, brother to dirt, mind and memory of hell's escapees.

I'm not even allowed to express current fears, issues and misery, as I fully know what it will cost me via a pig of a family court judge who allows me to be my kids Dad so long as my shit is intact. do you like that?

I can't even fire a red-flare when I'm in serious trouble. You say: "but if yer about to die, isn't it worth it to fire the flare?"

Firing the flare will guarantee a horrid loss; one that I will never survive and do not care to live through. Its worth it to not fire that flare and just hope to keep floating to some degree.

#430502 - 04/08/13 01:27 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Still]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3857
Loc: South-East Europe
Hang on ((((Still))))
My story

#430517 - 04/08/13 05:03 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Still]
cant_remember Offline

Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1070
(((((( Still )))))))

When I came back to MS after my long break from it, your posts gave me the strength to keep going and to live.

That's all. I just love you like crazy because I know you save lives.

I'll be just fine and dandy
Lord, it's like a hard candy Christmas
I'm barely getting through tomorrow
But I won't let sorrow get me way down.

#430530 - 04/08/13 06:56 PM Re: All Due Respect [Re: Still]
lapchinj Offline

Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1481
Loc: New York
((((( Still )))))

Cant, I can attest to Still saving lives, I'm one of them. I just have a hard time trying to show him how he has helped me. I have a hard time proving that he helped me and others. I feel bad that I do not posses the magic to help him. I love him and i love his kids and I would do anything to help them be together. I want to see a smile in his avatar, not the agony.

Peace, Rainbows, Love & Healing

Stick around, It will get better....🌹🌹🌹

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