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#424641 - 02/07/13 11:39 PM Sexual Abuse Memoir
bec Offline

Registered: 10/03/02
Posts: 187
Loc: chicagoland area
hello men:

i came across a great personal story on sexual abuse. i'll list it here:

Harper's magazine, January 2013, page 41, Barry Lopez, "Sliver of sky, Confronting the trauma of sexual abuse."

it is a powerful piece. i hope it benefits you.


#424968 - 02/11/13 07:54 PM Re: Sexual Abuse Memoir [Re: bec]
AndrewT Offline

Registered: 09/12/11
Posts: 25
Loc: Seattle, WA
Thanks bec - its very interesting.

An NPR interview with the author and the full text of the article is available at
I will be patient with myself and let myself heal from my abuse according Gods plan and not my own.

“You can get the child out of abuse, but getting the abuse out of the child is a different ball game.”

My story:

#425050 - 02/12/13 04:46 PM Re: Sexual Abuse Memoir [Re: AndrewT]
txb Offline

Registered: 02/03/13
Posts: 416
I read the radio interview transcript a couple of weeks ago. I really liked what he said about why kids don't tell. Mostly the first question anyone I've ever told has asked me is "why didn't you tell?" Like its so simple to do.


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