Tho' we've never met, glad you're back anyway. Your post caught my attention since I'm seeking out a new T and have had similar questions about the treatment your describing, also called EDMR.
I think you'll find both sides of the debate among your brothers.
For a relatively unbiased look, the Wikipedia entry:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_movement_desensitization_and_reprocessing
For my own case, I'm leaning away from it, primarily because CBT has worked for me in the past. For you, however, it may be more effective. I don't know. The support I can provide is that I think you're doing the right thing in asking questions, getting opinions from your brothers and researching it.
My heart goes out to you Tanis. Very glad you've had an event-free month.