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#424247 - 02/04/13 06:04 PM Again. *Trigger Warning*
Nyjah Offline
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Registered: 07/15/07
Posts: 610
Shit.

I've been trying to figure out where this goes exactly. In the Men abused as adults section or female abuser section.

I thought I was done dealing with abuse and things surrounding it. Stupid I know but I did. I thought it was over. I thought I was safe.

It happened again. More than once. In one night.

I was at a party, an end of finals we did it party. It was supposed to be a celebration, it was supposed to be fun. Not traumatic and torturous.


We were having a party to celebrate being done with mid terms.

There was a girl. Not just any girl my room mates girlfriend.

She kept trying to kiss me. I told her I wasn't interested. I tried to be nice. She wouldn't stop.

My room mate caught us. They both just laughed. Like it was a big joke. Like I was a big joke. She just kept going.

When it was done I couldn't stop shaking.

It was like that for the rest of the semester.

I just dove into school work and staying out of our apartment.

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#424253 - 02/04/13 06:38 PM Re: Again. *Trigger Warning* [Re: Nyjah]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1633
Loc: New England
Originally Posted By: Nyjah
There was a girl. Not just any girl my room mates girlfriend......My room mate caught us. They both just laughed. Like it was a big joke. Like I was a big joke. She just kept going.

When it was done I couldn't stop shaking.


Nyjah, Its clear you were very upset by this happening. Could you fill in the details a bit? Do you mean that she forced you into sex? And did that bring back memories of your SA?

Jude
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#424255 - 02/04/13 06:40 PM Re: Again. *Trigger Warning* [Re: Nyjah]
Nyjah Offline
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Yeah. She did.

It happened more than once. Whenever she was over she would and he didn't care.

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#424401 - 02/05/13 06:36 PM Re: Again. *Trigger Warning* [Re: Nyjah]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1633
Loc: New England
Thanks for the update Nyjah. I assume you've tried saying no and she just overwhelms you either with force or seduction. It may be that you need to find a new place to live, away from this roommate and his nymphomaniac girlfriend.

A guy who enjoys seeing his girlfriend hop on his roommate against his will, is not much of a friend. A girl who gets off on forcing guys into sex is not much of a girlfriend. I say ditch these two as soon as you can.

Jude
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I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
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#424410 - 02/05/13 07:18 PM . [Re: Nyjah]
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Registered: 08/25/11
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Loc: Bouvet Island
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Edited by Life's A Dream (04/22/13 02:29 AM)

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#424412 - 02/05/13 07:45 PM Re: Again. *Trigger Warning* [Re: Nyjah]
Nyjah Offline
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Posts: 610
I'm so sorry this happened to you Life's A Dream. It's scary. It was very scary.

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