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#423832 - 01/31/13 03:24 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4093
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
Gecko - this all sounds so hopeful i am very relieved to hear you working it out. you WILL get to "OK" and beyond!
"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"

#423836 - 01/31/13 06:22 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3817
Loc: South-East Europe
Hey Gecko,
it is great to hear that you brought your girlfriend at your therapy and that you've felt better lately.
Your girlfriend looks like she knows what she wants, I'm happy that she came no matter on your tries to sabotage it.

Must say that I've learned a lot from you and sharing problems with others.
Keep it up like that!

My story

#423849 - 01/31/13 10:09 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: crazy gecko]
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Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1070
(((( Gecko ))))

You're winning this game, brother. You're understanding your defense mechanisms and working to overcoming them.

Understanding that your subconscious was trying to sabotage your relationship in order to keep you "safe" is a great step, and the fact that your girlfriend saw through this and continued coming to your T session into your "safe place" is a HUGE sign that you're in a good place right now.

Congrats, brother. Proud of you.

Team Rubber Band!

I'll be just fine and dandy
Lord, it's like a hard candy Christmas
I'm barely getting through tomorrow
But I won't let sorrow get me way down.

#423941 - 02/01/13 01:13 AM Re: One step forward, two steps back... [Re: cant_remember]
crazy gecko Offline

Registered: 10/04/12
Posts: 309
Thanks everyone smile

Yes, I'm lucky to have a woman who knows what she wants in my life. She was pretty hurt and confused by my behaviour before, but somehow she was still able to trust me enough to come with me. And I really think she understands better now.

Originally Posted By: cant_remember
Team Rubber Band!


LOL. Whatever works, I guess...
I guess what I'm trying to say
Is whose life is it anyway because livin'
Living is the best revenge
You can play
-- Def Leppard

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