A - welcome - officially!
try not to take it too personally. sounds like someone jumped to conclusions without knowing the whole story.
but i'm sure you can also understand that if someone thought you were a pedophile, pervert, child abuser-type perpetrator - that would cause lots of triggers and likely lead to over-reactions.
glad you are able to put it in perspective and hang in there with us.
"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"