It is a mess we have been handed, or rather that has been shoved down into the deep recesses of our bodies. It is in our mind, that we learn from the abuse, that we are of the abuse. BUT.., we are not. We ARE children, the same who can laugh and run and play. We ARE adults who go to grocery stores and buy yogurt. We can be so much more than what we are, but right now, we need to heal. We need to love ourselves and very much care for us, as a doctor in a hospital treating an injury. No the patient cannot laugh and run and play, not yet...
My very best to you Goran. Thank you for sharing.
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