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#419985 - 12/24/12 05:06 AM Thought I was well
whome Offline

Registered: 05/07/11
Posts: 1743
Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
After nearly two years on this site and a lot of progress, I thought that things were well.
Now for the third time in two years my wife has asked me for a divorce again.
So what do I do? give up? Im not that sort of person, so again I start to examine my life and well, move into the spare room for now. Last night I lay in bed reading Mike Lews book, and I heard my daughter and wife laughing and joking in the other room.
IT HIT ME, I dont know how to relate to those closest to me, I cant seem to have a relationship with them.
I cant even relate to my daughter, they talk about things that I dont know about, it is like the world has moved on and I have been left behind. Why can I talk to people at work and not relate to my own kin. Why do others think I am great and my family thinks that I am an emotional retard.
I lay in bed and cried all night, I woke up at three in the morning and cried some more.
What the hell is it that I cannot connect to the ones that I love, I know that I love them, but just cant seem to connect?
How can I fix this?

Help Please.

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#420000 - 12/24/12 07:47 AM Re: Thought I was well [Re: whome]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3866
Loc: South-East Europe
Hey (((Martin))),
please try to calm yourself my friend. I'm so sorry that again some negative things are happening in your life.
Please stop searching for particular reasons within you, you are good person and there is nothing that you did wrong. You are not emotional retard, that is terrible negative message, don't stick to that.
Crises are happening in all marriages all time and it could be nothing connected to being you survivor.
Keep fighting buddy, you are terrible strong person and you have right to look for own happiness.
Hang on buddy
My story

#420031 - 12/24/12 10:29 PM * [Re: whome]
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Registered: 03/26/12
Posts: 2217

Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/29/13 05:31 PM)

#420069 - 12/25/12 03:28 PM Re: Thought I was well [Re: whome]
Scotty123 Offline

Registered: 12/07/09
Posts: 51

Edited by Scotty123 (01/08/13 09:44 AM)


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