please extend a personal invitation to your husband to join us here. it was one of the best things i have ever done in my life to help myself. he will find a huge amount of understanding and support among us.
thanks for introducing yourself. check out the Friends and Family forum - specifically for wives, partners and supportive non-survivors. i'm sure you will find lots of help there.
i hope and pray that all of you - daughter, husband, his brother and YOU - can reach healing and restoration of relationships.
"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"