please extend a personal invitation to your husband to join us here. it was one of the best things i have ever done in my life to help myself. he will find a huge amount of understanding and support among us.
thanks for introducing yourself. check out the Friends and Family forum - specifically for wives, partners and supportive non-survivors. i'm sure you will find lots of help there.
i hope and pray that all of you - daughter, husband, his brother and YOU - can reach healing and restoration of relationships.
"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"