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#414190 - 10/24/12 11:47 PM X
Sterling Offline

Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 1872
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
Last Wednesday i was in the steam room, and a woman was there
We got to talking and we really hit it off!
About 20 minutes later she had to go to take her kid to school.
As she was leaving she says to me " I will be here next Monday
at the same time".
I mentioned this to my therapist and he says " that is an
invitation if i ever heard of one".

So i was excited. I went a couple of days ago to the steam
room; she wasn't there.

Then i thought ' well i saw her last Wednesday morning maybe
she will be there this Wednesday...
So i went there this morning.
I got there early.
I spent at least 30 minutes in the steam room, i felt like
shit, so off i was going to the hot-tub.

As i walked toward the hot-tub i seen Jasmine was in there.
( Wow! i was thinking) " Hi, how you doin?" we asked
each other in unison.

After finding out that she was just about to get into the pool;
i thought " you better seize the moment Goran...."
" Hey Jasmine , you seeing anyone right now?"

"Ah, yeah i am".
( WHAT A BITCH!, i was thinking).
She tells me all about this guy.
And tells me about her business.

Anyone movng forward. Her loss ,not mine!

love ya's

#414196 - 10/25/12 01:07 AM Re: X [Re: Sterling]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4223
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
too bad, Goran!
mixed messages are hard to deal with.
but well done on taking the step and putting yourself out there.
that takes guts - and i'm glad you were not destroyed by it - but determinined to move on.
next time...?

good work, man!
How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

#414234 - 10/25/12 11:27 AM Re: X [Re: Sterling]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5971
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Hey Goran,

Rejection is difficult to accept, but think about it. In order to be rejected, you had to ask! You did! You knew rejection could be in the answer, but you lept anyway. Good Job survivor! You would have never known, and that has been difficult in the past. You are making fine progress. The next time you are in this situation, you know that no matter what the answer, you are going to ask and now you know that you will survive the answer.

That girl is gonna be miserable every second of her life because she didn't start seeing you smirk

MaleSurvivor Moderator Emeritus 2012 - 2014

#414266 - 10/25/12 09:54 PM Re: X [Re: SamV]
Sterling Offline

Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 1872
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
thanks Traveler! smile

And thanks SamV. ;esp., when saying " this girl will be

miserable for the rest of her life, for not seeing me".

You made me laugh,and smile- it feels good to have you
guys with me! smile


#414516 - 10/28/12 06:05 AM Re: X [Re: Sterling]
kinghenri Offline

Registered: 05/06/09
Posts: 221
Loc: Tucson Arizona
Pffft Women.
"In my life, I have seen,
People walk into the sea,
Just to find memories,
Plagued by constant misery,
Their eyes cast down,
Fixed upon the ground,
Their eyes cast down

I'll keep my eyes fixed on the sun"

#415132 - 11/02/12 10:25 PM Re: X [Re: kinghenri]
Sterling Offline

Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 1872
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
Y'know i have never felt so moved by such creative people.
I think all these quotes, poems- of everyone here should be
compiled and published!
I would buy a COPY IMMEDIATLEY!!!


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