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#414732 - 10/30/12 03:09 PM I'm finally talking
Suwanee Offline
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Registered: 10/30/12
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Edited by Suwanee (02/19/16 03:57 PM)

#414737 - 10/30/12 03:51 PM Re: I'm finally talking [Re: Suwanee]
thedudeabides Offline

Registered: 10/10/12
Posts: 39
Loc: Augusta, Georgia
Hi Suwanee and welcome to MaleSurvivor,

Your story sounds almost identical to mine. Unfortunately you'll find a lot of that here. Look around, read the stories and ask questions. Everyone is eager to help as best they can to guide you through this tough time. I've only been here a few weeks myself but many have encouraged me as they will you also. Here you'll find people of all different walks of life, nationalities, lifestyles, ages, etc. But all of that amounts to precisely nothing when you add our common experience into the equation. Yeah, I guess it sucks to be us sometimes but at least we're not alone in this anymore--just finding this site where people understand what we've been through has been more helpful to me than anything in the 40+ years since my CSA occurred. I hope the same proves to be true for you.

I don't ask for much, I only want trust,
and you know it don't come easy.
Ringo Starr

They flutter behind you, your possible pasts;
Some bright-eyed and crazy, some frightened and lost...
And strung out behind us the banners and flags
of our possible pasts lie in tatters and rags.
Roger Waters

#414797 - 10/31/12 12:46 AM Re: I'm finally talking [Re: Suwanee]
kcinohio Offline

Registered: 06/06/12
Posts: 512
Loc: Ohio
Thanks for sharing about your experience Suwanee. Hope you are able to find some healing here, too.

#416104 - 11/13/12 01:45 PM Re: I'm finally talking [Re: Suwanee]
JayBro Offline

Registered: 11/13/12
Posts: 325
Thank you for sharing your experience Suwanee. Last year, as I was coming to terms with my own abuse, the news had plenty of stories of men getting busted for abuse or child porn (which really bothers me as a victim of it), and the Sandusky news being everywhere also triggered me. You are very brave. I am proud of you for taking these steps
,,Nun ging es immerzu, weit, weit bis an der Welt Ende."

#416109 - 11/13/12 03:06 PM Re: I'm finally talking [Re: Suwanee]
cosmos Offline

Registered: 11/12/12
Posts: 191
Loc: Puget Sound
Suwanee sounds a lot like me except it was just a typical mid-life crisis until I started looking at my childhood; everything started coming back, the abuse, the family’s denial and even retribution by my father for blaming his god for what happened to me! 40+ years of silence; but no more!

Good Luck!!!
"it has never yet been discovered how to make man unknow his knowledge, or unthink his thoughts"

T. Paine


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