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#412693 - 10/10/12 04:43 PM New from Eastern Canada
peiguy Offline

Registered: 10/10/12
Posts: 2
Loc: Eastern Canada
I just joined about an hour or so ago and wrote my story [or part of it - as I remembered other 'follow up behviour'] My story is awaiting moderation [a good thing] and hopefully will show up in the next little while in the survivors stories section.

While I consider myself heterosexual, I do have a strong same sex attraction dimension as well, forming part of my fantasy life and occassionally [ a few times per year] becoming reality. Both in fantasy and in reality I tend to be submissive from a SSA point of view.

#412706 - 10/10/12 06:33 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
monkey Offline

Registered: 12/04/11
Posts: 53
Loc: IL
Welcome Peiguy and glad to have you on board!
We brothers at MS are here for you and to support you in any way we can. We have huge shoulders to lean on. I am also heterosexual with SSA issues. You are not alone.
The Flower Unfolding

#412718 - 10/10/12 10:02 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
Country Offline

Registered: 02/29/12
Posts: 654
Loc: Alabama
Welcome my brother from the far North. Thanks for sharing and best wishes o you thru ur recovery.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

#412732 - 10/11/12 02:01 AM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1633
Loc: New England
Welcome Peiguy,

You'll find alot of stories here expressing feelings and experiences similar to your own. Keep posting and keep reading. You'll learn alot quickly. Healing is a painful process and none of us has done it perfectly, but were all in this together, so ask for help. We're always here.

I will remember you
Will you remember me?
Don't let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Sarah McLachlan

#412873 - 10/12/12 08:09 AM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
derrick Offline

Registered: 05/30/10
Posts: 94
Loc: North Carolina
Hello Peiguy

I am glad you found us but sorry you qualify

Trust the brothers in these rooms

My Story

Alumnai of May 2011 DAHLONEGA (a life changeing event)
Alumnai of October 2010 WOR Hope Springs

#413045 - 10/14/12 04:33 AM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
kcinohio Offline

Registered: 06/06/12
Posts: 512
Loc: Ohio
Welcome to the forums. Hope you find some healing here.

#413103 - 10/14/12 09:21 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: kcinohio]
petercorbett Offline

Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 2509
Hi, my fraternal Canadian brother.

Welcome to MS. Here you will receive compassion, understanding & hope, from your brothers (fraternal) & friends (in pain).

We all have been there. We have been into the depths of our soul & hell too.

We will hear your cries. We will help in your fears & share in your tears.

Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster ride of your life.

Ms, has a lot to offer. One, is our (HC)healing circles. On Sunday & Wednesday evenings. Starting at 9pm Eastern. It's a moderated forum.It's by invitation. All you have to do to be accepted into the room is be in the chat site about 10 minutes before the start time. The moderator will type anyone here for the HC and all you have to do is enter HC, then another screen will come up and if you accept then you are in. It is in a safe room (only those invited) can see & respond. What is said there stays there. You can speak or you can just sit back & listen & perhaps learn something from our other brothers there.

You can also correspond with others via a PM (private message) only you two can read & answer them.

If you want to limit who can read your postings, there is the members only site. In these pages anyone one can read them.

So, my new Canadian, fraternal brother, peiguy, wishing you well in healing. You are on your way.

"I will take that lost boys hand, and I will lead him from the depths of darkness, into the sunshine, forever into eternity." As he is me.

Working Boys' Home 10-14 yrs old, grades 5-8. 1949-1953
A very humble alumni of the WOR Dahlonega, GA.
May 15-17 2009, Alta, Sep. 2009. Sequoia, 2010.
Hope Springs, 2010.

#413305 - 10/16/12 06:57 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
MarkK Offline

Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2653
Loc: Denver, CO
Welcome, my new Canadian friend. For what it's worth - the "SSA dimension" is more common than you might think.
Number of WoR's attended: 3
Last attended: 2011

#414960 - 11/01/12 01:04 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
David L Offline

Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 2
Hi Peiguy,
I totally agree with MarkK. You are among friends here. Be gentle and patient with self.

#414967 - 11/01/12 02:43 PM Re: New from Eastern Canada [Re: peiguy]
Shyshark Offline

Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 973
Loc: Canada
just wandering around trying to get my bearings ... only 3rd day here
Experience is a brutal teacher.


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