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#412525 - 10/09/12 02:36 AM some criticism both good and not so :)
Sterling Offline

Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 1822
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
Hi there .:) always wich-ya my friends !

Hey listen i am scared /nervous - but i am determined to make
Toronto my new home.

How do i know if i am ready to volunteeer or ..... ok. ;
i made a call to a help line here in Winnipeg,Manitoba ( Canada)
- and i do call quite often.
I want to move (and will). i had planned to apply to 5 jobs,
maybe more all in the similar area ; labour type, for example
CN Rail.
But now, i want more. smile I want to be there for guys and kids. After following my posts would you think i am
postively in the ready mode?, i want to help but i am aware
i am having to fix myself and self-care is 1st, so i can pay-
attentionto others.
The nice woman on the line i had spoken to suggested i look up
'Village Charity' !
And i was going to write in Toronto ...but i dont know if i
would have time to volunteer. Or see what i can do so perhaps
i can see what i need to learn in order to qualify for a positon
in any helping field at this point.
Any criticism is invited; as i wont want to assume i am any better
than any person having difficulty psychologically....

if you try to send me a pm - my box may be full ;sorry!
( I had no time ,just yet to take some off- i want to print them
all out.)
I suppose i could give my email address to ,well anyone should
i feel secure in doing so.
Thanks to all of you for your nice support since the very start
that i have been here ( XO)

i may not be as close as i hope to be.


#412570 - 10/09/12 01:32 PM Re: some criticism both good and not so :) [Re: Sterling]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3849
Loc: South-East Europe
Hello Goran smile
we all have some fears sometimes. I've been usually scared of changes and challenges that unknown future is bringing me, I understand you in full.
It is wonderful that you have wish to help others. You are so nice and good person, I'm so proud on you smile
But certainly your question of having free time for some volunteering is grounded.
Maybe it will be much easier for you to try to move and find some job and than to see how to get to things that you like the most. When you'll be in there it could be much easier for you to find more about opportunities in volunteering and what is needed to be able to do it.
What we will do with your full inbox smile ? Remember that every one of us have room for 200 messages. You sent me couple of them and by doing so you reduced rest to be lees from those first 200.
If we exchanged messages trough replying on first one you could save couple of messages for other friends and have more opportunities for communicating with others, so have that in mind for future smile
Also please remember that policy of MS is not to share any personal data like e-mails, there are different people who are visiting MS and it is not safe.

I love you my dear friend

Pero (Igor)
My story

#412645 - 10/10/12 12:28 AM Re: some criticism both good and not so :) [Re: Sterling]
Blue1966 Offline

Registered: 10/08/12
Posts: 83
Loc: USA
Why not set up a free email like through gmail just for that stuff?
I do that for business, people I am edgy off that need to email me etc...


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