I was abused by a brother who was 10 years older than me so i was about 7 years old. I'm struggling coming to grips with the past. I feel like an abuser even though I never abused anyone nor would i. I feel like I'm becoming what I fear the most which is an abuser.....like my brother. I am pretty depressed and trying to find the right help. This is pure hell that hopefully someday I can overcome. I pray to God for some sanity and resolution.I wonder if this is a common feeling among those who have been abused? I think if I knew this was a "normal" feeling of those that have been abused I would get some relief. I feel so alone. Anyone know of a good residential treatment center for trauma? Anyone familiar with "the Center"?