I am 3 years and 11 months out from H's suicide attempt and I have to say that time has made a HUGE difference. I lot of things have been worked on, worked through and put aside. There were some ugly ugly moments in there. Bad feelings, bad behavior, anger, etc, etc.
It has been very difficult for me to accept the things in my life that were influenced by his perp. I don't like those things....but I've softened considerably about how I feel about them.
I still want to beat his perp in the head with a bat......I'm not really interested in working on that though.
For the other stuff, time helps if you stick with it and work on it. That is my experience.
Edited by sugarbaby (09/06/12 11:11 AM)