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#408806 - 09/03/12 06:36 PM Hello, I am ltlkty
ltlkty Offline

Registered: 03/27/12
Posts: 1
I'm just getting around to the introduction forum, though I've been monitoring the friends and family forum for a while. It is a little late for my CMS,SO. Had I this resource & 1in6 in 2005 when I 1st suspected, I may have learned enough to keep the knee jerk reactions (some manipulated I'm sure), etc., from dictating the destruction of 2 lives. As I found the site after I left, I can only get comfort from the friends & family forum, and pray he got the messages I sent with your org's link, and 1in6. (I've been deleted from his life you see). Thank you for being here. I have lost everything, but not as much as some. You all are a great help. Thank you. Hindsight......

#408836 - 09/04/12 02:45 AM Re: Hello, I am ltlkty [Re: ltlkty]
SamV Offline

Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5971
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Welcome ltlkty,

There are many relationships that have resulted in pain, frustration and devastation from the harmful effects of sexual abuse. My heart reaches out to you in mourning the loss of a loved one. We struggle to recover here, and our dear supporters struggle with us.

I personally want you to know how important taking good care of yourself is as you move into this part of your life. You are a good and caring person who has been overwhelmed with the acting out and erratic behavior of a confused, hurt and panicked survivor. This does not mean you cannot grow, learn to create appropriate boundaries and enjoy a healthy meaningful relationship again. It may not be the first thing to do tomorrow, but it is something you can work toward at your pace.

Please consider recovery groups in your area such as CODA or Al-Anon. Find you in the midst of this pain, and heal from this hurt.

I am rooting for you ltlkty,

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#409182 - 09/06/12 12:16 PM Re: Hello, I am ltlkty [Re: ltlkty]
Older1 Offline

Registered: 12/20/11
Posts: 116
You have shown courage in joining this site some months ago. Carry on !!


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