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#40574 - 12/04/03 02:22 PM My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
crisispoint Offline

Registered: 09/24/03
Posts: 2154
Loc: Massachusetts
This may be the best birthday present ever!

I wrote a letter to a youth advice columnist in the Boston area, Ask Beth, which is published in the Boston Globe (they say it's also syndicated, but I really don't know about that). I told my story in abbreviated form, and mentioned to get the word out. Imagine my surprise and shock to see my letter in the column today!

Anyone interested in reading it can go to (whew! That was a keyboardful!).

I hope it helps others. I know it helped me. I'm not hiding anymore. I have nothing to be ashamed about. I am LIVING with the abuse and I have NOTHING to be ashamed about. None of us do!

Be proud of yourselves, brothers and sisters. We are not being beaten by the abusers. WE are beating THEM! WE are healing the damage done to us. HEALING!

Peace and love, my brothers!

Scot \:D

There are reasons I'm taking medication. They're called "other people." - Me, displaying my anti-social tendancies

#40575 - 12/04/03 02:44 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
dwf Offline
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Registered: 05/24/03
Posts: 1223
Loc: Austin, Texas USA
Way to go, Scot!

What a great letter you have written. I am sure that it will help a lot in expanding the public conciousness of the dilemna of the abused men in the US.

You have shown a great deal of courage in dealing with the effects of the sexual abuse in your own life. Now you are demonstrating a beautiful degree of compassion by publicly sharing your experience and hope with others.

What a wonderful thing to have done. You are right. When we are able like you to take the shameful abuse in our lives, share. it in the hope of helping others, we turn what happened to us into a valuable resource in the fight against male sexual abuse. Then we truly are the victors.

Thanks for posting this.

Your brother,

"Poke salad Annie, 'gators got you granny
Everybody said it was a shame
'Cause her mama was aworkin' on the chain-gang"

-Tony Joe White

#40576 - 12/04/03 03:31 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
WOW Scot,
What courage it took to put that out like that. Thank you for telling your story. Maybe just one person will read it and find help they didnt know was out there. ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#40577 - 12/04/03 03:53 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
Brayton Offline

Registered: 10/21/03
Posts: 696
Loc: Minneapolis
This is excellent! Thanks a lot.


Sometimes, things just won't work the way we want them to.

#40578 - 12/04/03 04:21 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
Andrew Offline
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Registered: 07/25/03
Posts: 1192
Wonderful letter Scot. Peace, Andrew

there is no courage without anxiety

#40579 - 12/04/03 04:36 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
Dale English Offline
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Registered: 06/08/03
Posts: 448
Loc: PA
talk about changing shame into pride!!! Way to go Scott.

#40580 - 12/04/03 05:23 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Scot Yeh that is some birthday present and happy birthday.

Would you mind terribly if I forwarded this on the The Toronto Star with a preface by me but acknowledging you as the author



#40581 - 12/04/03 05:46 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
outis Offline

Registered: 02/27/03
Posts: 2261
Loc: Maryland USA

Thank you for your letter. I'm glad to see the issue, and this site, getting some coverage. WTG!


"Telemachos, your guest is no discredit to you. I wasted no time in stringing the bow, and I did not miss the mark. My strength is yet unbroken…"—The Odyssey, translated by W.H.D. Rouse

#40582 - 12/04/03 06:57 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
blueelectron9 Offline

Registered: 11/07/02
Posts: 387
Loc: Victoria, BC Canada

That was terrific and encouraging! I am impressed with how articulate and expressive you are.

Thank you for sharing.


An odd duck who likes even numbers.

#40583 - 12/04/03 11:39 PM Re: My letter was published in "Ask Beth!"
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
Well done for spreading the word, that was a good letter and a good response.

We need a few morw like that ;\)


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau

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