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#404454 - 07/23/12 12:27 PM worse?
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 4197
Loc: resettling in NE Ohio
Which is worse?

No father:
a hole, a void, a lack, an absence?

Or a step-father:
angry, demeaning, cruel, abusive?

Even a real father:
cold, perfectionistic, rejecting, unloving?

And how could you compare?
I know the first and second but not the third.

My half-brother knows only the third not the others.
We cannot measure and compare all three.

Even though two out of three
are one and the same.

lee
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How long, LORD, must I call for help, but you do not listen?
Or cry out to you, “Violence!” but you do not save?
Why do you make me look at injustice?
Why do you tolerate wrongdoing?...
Therefore the law is paralyzed, and justice never prevails....
Habakkuk 1:2-3

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#404463 - 07/23/12 02:37 PM Re: worse? [Re: traveler]
SamV Offline
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Registered: 12/13/09
Posts: 5971
Loc: Sunnny, South East USA
Keep processing Lee,

They can no longer hurt you, only that you may need to decide how categorize them, their lessons and their worth. It is up to you, but not over you, you will value them accordingly, and it will affirm this good process.

Sam
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