I have no idea what the UBB/buddy thing is, and I haven't cared to check into it. I have no idea if I have any or not.
I enjoy the sense of being in a large pond of kindred spirits here, so it defeats my purpose for being here to isolate myself in sub-groups.
My biggest regret in life is that so much of mine was spent isolated. I no longer do that, even online.
I consider you and everyone here a buddy.
I have taken to the stand-up comedy stage to educate other male survivors and those who try to love them. I blog about my isolated religious upbringing where physical and sexual abuse were commonplace and I serve as a facilitator of a weekly support group for men who have suffered sexual assault.