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#39710 - 12/01/03 03:18 PM Have a new t
James_dup1 Offline

Registered: 04/13/02
Posts: 1332
Loc: Wyoming
Hey Guys,
Well I have a new t now. She had lots of experence in dealing with abuses issues in both men and women, so thats good. I'm a bit of a basket case she has had me writing out my life story. Where born, where raised, just lots of questions for me to answer. And it's been bring up lots of old feelings I thought I was past. But there not as over whelming as they were so I guess I'm healing (or getting better hiding). It's just hard to write down the answers to some of the questions. Understand? I dont know. I gave her the web address to here and told her this place has been and is a big part in my life and would like for her to look at it and if she wants to regester so if anyone else in Montana comes to try to find a t her name will show up. I have my third apt with her tomarrow and it takes some work to get there each week, I just want to run the other way. OK well guess Im done ranting. Sorry this didnt make a lot of sence \:\( but thanks to each and everyone of you for being a brother and helping me get to where I am right now. ((((hugs))))

I have more issues than Rolling Stone!

#39711 - 12/01/03 04:20 PM Re: Have a new t
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
James. I am so glad that you have a new T that has experience with the issues. it was not a rant merely commenting on the fact that this shitty issue takes a whole lot of work on our part. But by god it is worth it. Stay with it and us my brother



#39712 - 12/01/03 04:34 PM Re: Have a new t
Andrew Offline
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Registered: 07/25/03
Posts: 1192
Good luck with it James. Sounds like you have your work cut out for you for the next little while. Take care. Peace, Andrew

there is no courage without anxiety

#39713 - 12/01/03 07:23 PM Re: Have a new t
survive75 Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 304
Loc: Massachusetts
Hey James... good for you. I'm so glad you found someone you can build that ever-difficult therapy trust with. Gives me hope. \:\)

Keep us posted.



"Even though I know/I donít want to know/Yeah I guess I know/I just hate how it sounds"

#39714 - 12/02/03 07:01 AM Re: Have a new t
Thomas Offline

Registered: 07/31/03
Posts: 109
Loc: boise

I'm really glad to hear about your new therapist. My first therapist did not have very much experience w/ abuse issues, and we never got very far. My present therapist has considerable experience w/ abuse and trauma victims. My pdoc has quite a bit of experience w/ PTSD patients. It's made quite a difference. I hope that your healing will really take off.


To know what you prefer instead of humbly saying Amen to what the world tells you you ought to prefer, is to have kept your soul alive. - Robert Louis Stevenson

#39715 - 12/02/03 11:42 PM Re: Have a new t
Lloydy Offline
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Registered: 04/17/02
Posts: 7071
Loc: England Shropshire
I have my third apt with her tomarrow and it takes some work to get there each week, I just want to run the other way.
You ain't run from anything yet, and has anyone ever said it was going to be easy ?

"No" to both questions I bet.

You can walk there with your head held high my friend.
It's good to see you back as well.


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
Henry David Thoreau


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