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#397034 - 05/13/12 11:54 PM she said YES!
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Registered: 02/07/06
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This weekend - it was one of the best things that ever happened to me - my wife said to me - out of the clear blue sky - "i'm glad i married you."

i couldn't believe it! i said - "even with all the stuff you didn't know you were getting into...?"

... she said: "YES!" ... and then ...
"it's called COMMITTMENT!"

i am still flying high!!!

LEE
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#397048 - 05/14/12 01:12 AM * [Re: traveler]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (04/28/13 02:29 PM)

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#397064 - 05/14/12 04:22 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 10/09/11
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Your post Lee has brought smile to my face smile !
I'm very happy for you, thanks for sharing so positive feelings with us. Wee all need more those YES!
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#397065 - 05/14/12 04:29 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Lee

That is true love, I know the feeling, when I told my wife 10 years ago, she accepted me as I was.

To be accepted with all our past baggage, warts and all, if truly amazing.

Well done....enjoy the high.
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#397101 - 05/14/12 10:54 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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yeah - it's almost as important as the first "i do!" we were so dumb and clueless way back then. to re-affirm it now - with all the history and ups and downs and the struggles means so much.

Lee
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- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"

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#397105 - 05/14/12 11:24 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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You have a very special woman to stand by you all these years--definitely she valued for better or worse. Glad for you

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#397156 - 05/14/12 09:02 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Happy for you both!!
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#397167 - 05/14/12 10:09 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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YES!!!!
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#397204 - 05/15/12 04:21 AM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Well, of COURSE she said yes! You are a greater human being than you give yourself credit for! smile

(((Lee)))
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#397245 - 05/15/12 02:13 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
Gretta Offline


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Yahoo!

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#397265 - 05/15/12 03:47 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
whome Offline
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Loc: Johannesburg South Africa
Lee

That's great. It is always good to have someone in your corner when you are dealing with CSA recovery.
I pray that she doesn't overlook the need to heal herself while she is supporting you.

Keep moving forward Lee, I feel that you are going to accomplish great things.

Heal well
Martin
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#397269 - 05/15/12 04:01 PM Re: she said YES! [Re: traveler]
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Registered: 03/16/11
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Loc: Louisiana, USA
I am so happy for you Lee.

Jim
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