Wow, it seems that your husband got the violence addiction. There are various ways that men deal with their abuse, Violence, Porn, Alcohol, Drugs, Sex addiction and on and on and on.
There is however one IMPORTANT fact here.
In order to recover from CSA, one needs to be OF SOUND MIND. CSA victims do all that they can to NUMB the emotions, and one of the ways we numb our emotions is to drink.
Now in order to heal from CSA we need to stop drinking and stop using other things that numb our emotions (violence).
I am afraid that the therapy will not be as effective as it could be whilst the husband is drinking.
Now to stop the drinking he needs to make that choice, you cant force him.
But you can set out the rules.
Lay down rules and if he breaks them the consequences must be harsh and must be followed through.
If you drink and come home drunk then you will get thrown out the house.
If you fight you will get thrown out the house.
If you surf porn you will........yeah get thrown out the house.
What is even more important here is that you start to prepare yourself. Get help, go to Al Anon, study up on Co-Dependency, and find out as much as you can about the effects of CSA on your man's life. Forearmed is forewarned.
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Look after yourself and heal well
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