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#390337 - 03/23/12 09:57 AM Re: WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY [Re: KMCINVA]
Castle Offline

Registered: 10/03/09
Posts: 758
@ phoenix Many men are nurturers and that's ok...nothing "un-manly" about being a's not solely a female trait.


#390342 - 03/23/12 10:26 AM Re: WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY [Re: Esposa]
herowannabe Offline

Registered: 11/01/11
Posts: 386
Loc: USA
A supporter who isn't a survivor him/herself has a broader ledge and stronger legs to stand on, so to speak, in viewing the situation and **may** be able to see through the infidelity to the man they love, a human being damaged **and** worthy of love and support.

Perfection, Eyes!!!

Supporters who witness even a glimmer of honesty and effort toward recovery/growth in a husband is able to separate the "actions" from the "man".

If our husbands give us a crumb of hope, we squirrel it away and pray for another.

Of course, the whole thing is a process- two steps forward, followed by a slide backwards. Pain can be incapacitating for survivors. Supporters are no less teflon coated!

As always, so eloquent, Eyes! Sending you love and hugs!!!



For I know the plans I have made for you. Plans to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11

#390373 - 03/23/12 01:51 PM Re: WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY [Re: KMCINVA]
Jim1104 Offline

Registered: 03/16/11
Posts: 410
Loc: Louisiana, USA
I am so glad you have stayed with us eyes.


#390537 - 03/24/12 02:07 PM Re: WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY [Re: eyesforward]
Avery46 Offline

Registered: 09/23/10
Posts: 1243
Loc: USA
Originally Posted By: eyesforward
...Avery, these women are hurting and hurting deeply. The hurt doesn't fully destroy who they are in the same way it would for a survivor....

Love to you all. I give you all compassion for what you do in your lives.

For me when I responded, I ment only to give encouragement.


aka DJsport

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